Last February I appeared on Steven Spierer’s radio show, and he brought on a caller, Matt, who had just started work at a big New York City law firm. You can listen to that interview here. Now – 9 months later – I went back on Steven’s show, and caught up with Matt, and heard [...]
Archive for the ‘Radio’ Category
A Radio Reunion
Posted in Radio, tagged associate, biglaw, law school, Steven Spierer, Talk Radio One on November 13, 2011 | 1 Comment »
The B Word
Posted in Radio, tagged bisexual, bisexuality, Life is a Brief Opportunity for Joy, Rodney Dangerfield on March 7, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
This month on “The Alternative” we honored that under-appreciated month – March – by sending some appreciation to those under-appreciated members of the queer community, the bisexuals. Terry was back to host the show (with his charming and lovely technician and sidekick, Andrew Holinsky.) You can listen to the show here. My segment starts about 10 [...]
Achieving ignition
Posted in Radio, tagged AIG, Harvard, law firm, Life is a Brief Opportunity for Joy, NYU Law, real estate, Steven Spierer, Sullivan & Cromwell, Talk Radio One on February 27, 2011 | 1 Comment »
After Steve Spierer invited me to be a guest on his radio show on Talk Radio One, he told me we’d probably do a 30-minute segment. Then he added a caveat: ”If we’re really on fire, we could go the full forty-five.” Apparently we achieved ignition, because we ran the full forty-five. Steve’s a terrific [...]
Love, romance and the three stages of dating
Posted in Radio, tagged Andrew Holinsky, couples counseling, dating, gay, Guy Windsor, lesbian, LGBT, love, romance, Terry LeGrand on February 14, 2011 | 1 Comment »
This month on “The Alternative” we celebrated Valentine’s Day with some lively – and racy – talk about dating and romance. Terry LeGrand wasn’t feeling well, so his old friend Guy Windsor (who comes on every month to present LGBT theater reviews) stepped in to host the show (with plenty of help from Terry’s regular [...]
Another coming out process
Posted in Radio, tagged disclosure, Discrimination, HIV, HIV status, Senator Tom Duane, Thomas Duane on January 10, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
This month “The Alternative” with Terry LeGrand celebrated its one year anniversary. Congratulations, Terry! (And congrats to his technician and sidekick, Andrew Holinsky, too!) For the anniversary show, we talked about a good New Year’s resolution for every LGBT person – coming out of the closet – but with a twist. For many in our [...]
It’s not about popping corks
Posted in Radio, tagged AA, Alcoholic's Anonymous, alcoholism, clean and sober, New Year's Eve, program, recovery, sobriety, substance abuse, Terry LeGrand, The Alternative on December 13, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
This month on “The Alternative” with Terry LeGrand, we talked about staying conscious of the real impact of alcohol on our lives – especially at New Year’s Eve. You can listen to the show here. My segment starts about ten minutes in, but as always, it’s worth sticking around for the whole show. To find out [...]
Holiday Survival Guide
Posted in Radio, tagged alcoholism, Christmas, gay, holidays, isolation, lesbian, LGBT, survival, Thanksgiving on November 15, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
This month on “The Alternative” with Terry LeGrand, we talked about surviving the holiday season as an LGBT person, especially if you’re feeling alone and maybe a little blue. You can listen to the show here. My segment starts about eleven minutes in, but as always, it’s worth sticking around for the whole show. To find [...]
Kinky Halloween
Posted in Radio, tagged bondage, dominant, gay, humiliation, kink, kinky sex, leather community, lesbian, LGBT, pig bottom, submissive on November 2, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
This week on a special Halloween edition of “The Alternative” with Terry LeGrand, we talked about kinky sex, and how your therapist has to be able to accept your tastes in bed, if you’re going to work successfully together. You can listen to the show here. My segment starts about eleven minutes in, but as always, [...]
Balancing law and anything else
Posted in Radio on November 1, 2010 | 7 Comments »
I took part in a “spirited conversation” about working in the law last week on an ABA podcast. You can listen to it here. I come into the conversation after about 9 minutes. The official discussion topic was “work/life balance”…but given the current situation for most attorneys, I found myself “expanding” the topic a bit [...]
Our children
Posted in Radio, tagged coming out, gay, Harvey Milk, lesbian, LGBT teens, Silence equals death, Suicide, the closet, Tyler Clementi on October 11, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
This month on “The Alternative” with Terry LeGrand we discussed a particularly troubling topic – suicide among LGBT teenagers. You can listen to the show here. My segment starts about nine minutes in, but as always, it’s worth sticking around for the whole show. To find out more about Terry and “The Alternative” on LA [...]
One more challenge
Posted in Radio, tagged anal sex, bottom, condoms, gay, HIV, mixed-status, oral sex, safe sex, safer sex, same-sex couples, sero-discordant couples, top on September 6, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
I was back on “The Alternative” with Terry LeGrand this week, after a short summer break. This time we talked about the unique – and not so unique – challenges facing mixed HIV-status couples. Here’s a link to hear the show. I come on about 7 minutes in – check out the new taped intro Terry [...]
Finding love online
Posted in Radio, tagged online dating, online profile on June 7, 2010 | 2 Comments »
This week, on “The Alternative” with Terry LeGrand, we talked about dating, and internet dating in particular, including some advice on putting together an online dating profile. Here’s a link to hear the show. I come on about 11 minutes in. You’ll probably end up sticking around to listen to the whole thing – it’s [...]
Putting our troops in harm’s way
Posted in Current Events, Radio, tagged DADT, Don't Ask Don't Tell on May 31, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
I was proud to be a part of a special Memorial Day edition of “The Alternative” with Terry LeGrand this week. Once Terry got me started talking about all the reasons I hate the US military’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy towards its lesbian and gay troops, he couldn’t get me to stop. It’s a [...]
Gay patient…gay therapist?
Posted in Radio, tagged gay therapists, homophobia on May 4, 2010 | 2 Comments »
This week on The Alternative, with Terry LeGrand, I chatted with Terry about whether a gay person necessarily needs to choose a gay therapist. We got a good discussion going. Terry, like many gay men, said off the top of his head that he’d prefer a gay man to be his therapist (if he ever [...]
Gay parents adopting kids
Posted in Radio, tagged gay adoption, LA Talk Radio, Radio, Terry LeGrand, The Alternative on April 5, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
We had so much fun together last month on LATalkRadio, that Terry LeGrand, the host of “The Alternative,” invited me back to do a regular feature on the show. This month I discussed the special role gay adoptive parents play in the lives of children (see this article for more information.) To hear this month’s [...]
Gay, meet straight
Posted in Radio, tagged LA Talk Radio, LGBT, Terry LeGrand, The Alternative on March 9, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
The People’s Therapist had fun the other night on the radio, chatting with LA Talk Radio host Terry LeGrand about some common misconceptions that gay and straight people hold about one another. Here’s the interview. I come on about 10 minutes into the show. Terry is an interesting guy – and his show – “The [...]
On the radio with John Riley’s OutFM
Posted in Radio, tagged FM 99.5, gay men's group, Group therapy, HIV, interview, John Riley, OutFM, People's Therapist, private practice, Radio, St. Vincent's, talkSafe/PLUSES, WBAI on January 15, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
Here’s an old radio interview, I believe from early 2006. I was featured on John Riley’s OutFM radio show on WBAI, FM 99.5. My segment begins at 39:30 about two thirds of the way through the show. I discuss the TalkSafe/PLUSES program that I was administrating at St. Vincent’s Hospital in Manhattan. There’s some interesting [...]